emotion
Relief
Confidence · moderate
The downshift after an anticipated bad outcome doesn't occur or a stressor ends.
The threat is over. I am safe now.
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Overview
Typical triggers
- ·Good news after waiting
- ·Stressful event ending
- ·Tension being acknowledged
Common metaphors
- “Weight lifted”
- “Off my shoulders”
- “Could finally breathe”
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Body
- chestSigh, opening
- shouldersDrop, release
- whole bodySoftening, sometimes shakiness
Parasympathetic — restoration
Arousal2/5
Energy2/5
- Heart rate
- Decelerates
- Breathing
- Long exhale, deep sigh
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Mind
Attention
Diffuses, present-oriented
Facial expression
Relaxed brow, gentle smile, soft eyes
Typical thoughts
- “Thank god”
- “It's over”
- “I can rest now”
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Behavior
- Sighing
- Sitting down
- Tears, laughter
- Embracing
Environmental influences
Soft surfaces · Familiar comforts · Quiet
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Function
Restorative downshift after threat, integrating the experience and conserving resources.
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Interventions
- Allow the body to shake or sigh fully
- Rest before rushing to the next task
- Tell someone what you were carrying
Reflection questions
- · What was I bracing against?
- · What did I learn about handling it?
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Relationships
RelatedNeighborOpposite
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Research
Relief is understudied but appears to engage opioid and parasympathetic systems in stress recovery.
Citations
- · Sweeny & Vohs (2012). On near misses and relief.